It takes desire and motivation to get started but it's our character that gets us over the line.
Many of us know what we want to be doing by the next five (5) years but not a lot know what they must do tomorrow morning.
In our healing journey we're going to face many battles, most with the ones we know too well.
"...teach him gently, but do not cuddle him, for only the test of fire makes fine steel" - Abraham Lincoln
Getting a different feedback from our expectations usually stirs feelings of rejection but is there more to it?
If money truly satisfied, the rich wouldn't take their own life.
When blessings abound it's easy to take them for granted until we experience the other side.
If there's no love within, establishing healthy relationships becomes too much of an ask.
It takes courage to move alone but it's in building true connections that we meet the psychological need for affection and belongingness.
When the chips are down, who stays when there's no incentive to do so?
It's only discernment or hindsight that can tell the difference between being patient and wasting our time; so how does one avoid regrets?
If self love is wanting the best for ourselves. How then do we become the best?